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What's so scary about feminism? raises some important questions.

"WASHINGTON - The other day at work, some colleagues and I were discussing a chain restaurant known for its scantily clad waitresses. I was taken aback for a moment. "They have the best sports bar in my area," one person said. "I hear they have great Buffalo wings," said another.
It was a moment of disconnect. "But how can anyone go to places like that?" I asked. "What about the objectification of women's bodies?"

The what of the who?
My colleagues, many of them young enough to be my offspring, gave me puzzled, bemused looks..."


I empathize, trust me.

Theoretically, Feminism is the theory that men and women should be equal politically, economically and socially.
But things are not always as "theoretical" in Life as we wish them to be.

The Feminist movement,in its inception offered enticing,promises to women. "I am Woman, Hear me Roar"."Women are the same as Men..and can Therefore "have it all"!

Pursuits, which emphasized self-sufficiency, individualism, and being in the Workplace were supposed to enhance a woman's "quality of life",revolutionize her otherwise drab and mundance existence as a "homemaker' formerly known as a "housewife and mother."

By the same token,it was argued that some people aren't cut out physically to be a fire fighter, serve in combat, or be construction workers. But some are physically capable. Gender should not even come into play as the jobs should be open to all people .Those men and women who are physically capable and want to, should have every right to pursue such jobs. Again no note of psychological constitution, as this is considered completely irrelevant.

Men and women were brainwashed that aside from some inconsequential, culturally exaggerated, biological differences, - men and women are fundamentally the same. This has of course encouraged the culture of promiscuity, which may not stigmatize men but serves to notoriously degrade and demean women.

For starters,when it comes to the ahem..."liberation" of the workplace, women have discovered that in fact they do not have an inexhaustible supply of physical and emotional energy that enable them to juggle a career, family, friendships and life! Child rearing and homemaking were exclusive roles for a reason. They are full time, exhausting roles. The added burden that many women feel of "having" to work in order to be valued..or even the ones working for the intellectual, financial and emotional fulfillment experience tremendous stress.

And what is the politically Incorrect nasty little Truth about women and their sexual lives that make them so different than men?..
The truth is that women can't separate sex from love in the manner that men can.
That's right I said it.

If they tell you they can they are lying to themselves as well as to you.

For women, sex needs to be an expression of love and some form of commitment. Always. Not sometimes.

Women "offer" their bodies, but along with that..they unconsiously offer a part of their souls.

A man frequenting a restaurant with scantily-clad women?..(who unknowingly exploit the most precious parts of their womanhood)..is in collusion and taking something from that woman she should have been taught not to "sell" and he should have been taught,- "not to take".

Men and women were both endowed with unique God-given strengths. If channelled properly they can both bring glory to God and the World, not to mention- boundless joy and fulfillment to one another.

What's good for the 'goose' is most certainly not good for the 'gander', which is why the Good Lord made both to begin with.

"Quack Quack".